Post by David Gordon Burke on Nov 26, 2004 11:17:12 GMT -5
So again the dark shadow of conflict falls upon us.
I am at this moment trying to fix a conflict between some unnamed people.
I am posting this message for the benefit of anyone who reads about this situation and the involved parties.
First of all, there is no conflict. I sent these people private messages, but it looks like they didn't read them.
Then I sent them another private message telling them that I had deleted and modified any posts by them or by me that either side might find offensive. Then, because they didn't read the private messages, they went ballistic and are saying all kinds of bad things about me. But I am not going to take the bait. Two reasons. #1. I am just bloody sick of all the bickering.
#2. I don't care for starting another war.
Seems like a good idea that in the future anyone with a problem should direct their comments to other people via their e mail accounts and not wash their dirty laundry in public.
These sites are part education, part entertainment and part opinion. If someone posts and opinion that you disagree with, ignore it and post your opinion. Attacking someone else's opinion is just conflictive.
And if you agree on some conditions for a deal, arrangement etc. etc. you should fulfill your obligation. Anything else is just taking advantage.
Again, I am not going to let this site become another negative vibe forum. If you have a problem with me or something I have posted, or anyone else, my e mail account is ottawalad5@hotmail.com
Thank you,
Stoney
Guys, read your private messages. Then, if you realize that I was trying stop the possibility for conflict, instead of start it, then you might think of following my lead and not going all crazy anytime problems arise. I didn't drag you guys through the mud in front of the users here. I hope this is the last time that this happens.
One last note: When a thread is locked, that is because the person who hosts this forum, created it, and maintains it, (namely me) has decided that this is a closed subject) Do I go to your family home and put my feet up on the sofa? No. So again, take a hint and if you feel that further discussion is necessary, us the e mail address already provided.
Finally, I am not blaming anyone and expect no apologies. The vibe lately has been very negative due to other people, so I would just as soon forget about this incident and get about the business of working on my site without all this negative nonsense. This is a simple misunderstanding which has been blown out of proportion, mostly because we have all gotten used to fighting. I am not fighting anymore.
S
I am at this moment trying to fix a conflict between some unnamed people.
I am posting this message for the benefit of anyone who reads about this situation and the involved parties.
First of all, there is no conflict. I sent these people private messages, but it looks like they didn't read them.
Then I sent them another private message telling them that I had deleted and modified any posts by them or by me that either side might find offensive. Then, because they didn't read the private messages, they went ballistic and are saying all kinds of bad things about me. But I am not going to take the bait. Two reasons. #1. I am just bloody sick of all the bickering.
#2. I don't care for starting another war.
Seems like a good idea that in the future anyone with a problem should direct their comments to other people via their e mail accounts and not wash their dirty laundry in public.
These sites are part education, part entertainment and part opinion. If someone posts and opinion that you disagree with, ignore it and post your opinion. Attacking someone else's opinion is just conflictive.
And if you agree on some conditions for a deal, arrangement etc. etc. you should fulfill your obligation. Anything else is just taking advantage.
Again, I am not going to let this site become another negative vibe forum. If you have a problem with me or something I have posted, or anyone else, my e mail account is ottawalad5@hotmail.com
Thank you,
Stoney
Guys, read your private messages. Then, if you realize that I was trying stop the possibility for conflict, instead of start it, then you might think of following my lead and not going all crazy anytime problems arise. I didn't drag you guys through the mud in front of the users here. I hope this is the last time that this happens.
One last note: When a thread is locked, that is because the person who hosts this forum, created it, and maintains it, (namely me) has decided that this is a closed subject) Do I go to your family home and put my feet up on the sofa? No. So again, take a hint and if you feel that further discussion is necessary, us the e mail address already provided.
Finally, I am not blaming anyone and expect no apologies. The vibe lately has been very negative due to other people, so I would just as soon forget about this incident and get about the business of working on my site without all this negative nonsense. This is a simple misunderstanding which has been blown out of proportion, mostly because we have all gotten used to fighting. I am not fighting anymore.
S